kindness

How You Treat Service Workers Says Everything About You (Yes, Even If You’re “Important”)

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Let’s get one thing straight: if you’re the kind of person who snaps at waiters, glares at cashiers, or throws a tantrum because your latte took an extra three minutes, you’re not just having a bad day—you’re an a$$hole.  I don’t care if you just came from church, a meditation retreat, or a f^%king TED … Read more

How to Talk to Someone Who’s Lost Weight (Without Being a D!ck About It)

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Losing weight—whether through sheer willpower, diet and exercise, or the latest fancy-ass pharmaceuticals—is a big f^%king deal for a lot of people. And when someone drops a significant amount of weight, people notice. That’s fine. Noticing is human. But what comes next?  Well, that’s where people f^%k it up.  We live in a culture that’s obsessed with weight. So much so that … Read more